Sometimes after couples have been together for at least a few months, they start to get very used to each other. Many times, what happens at that point is the slow destruction of the relationship from within. What I am referring to is the slow loss of respect that sometimes comes with being around each other too much. That sounds terrible, but it is often true that couples start to take each other for granted as relationships progress. Many times, these pairings end in a sudden flame out as one partner just cannot take any more of the neglect and/or mental abuse.
Often, once the other person is gone, each person starts to see the other partner in a different light. A little bit of distance clarifies things and they starting considering getting back together again. In some cases things work out great, but usually this will not happen unless changes are made to ensure that both partners will work to remember what is special about the other person.
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